Character Creates Opportunity® – Moving Forward: Thursday, June 12, 2014

“Experience is the mother of all learning,” so the saying goes.  We all have had some defining experiences in our lives.  If we look back, there are probably a few events in our school years that we can still recall having a major impact on our lives.  Whether it was a big championship game or an interaction with a great teacher, we still carry those experiences throughout our adult years.  There are definitely some experiences from our close relationships, probably some positive and some negative, which remain with us as we continue our journey.  Likewise, there are probably experiences in our chosen career that became teachable moments for us and we have carried those lessons with us to this day

During my time in the Army, I certainly had some experiences that stay with me to this day. Iraq in 1991 I learned a great deal about myself and a great deal about leadership, courage, strategy, and tactics.  When I reflect back on the most significant learning, it was quite simple; the importance to just keeping moving forward.  Whether tired, scared, or confused, just keep moving forward toward your objective.  As an infantryman, with a heavy pack, leading a platoon of soldiers, the pressing call was always to keep moving forward toward the objective.  Whether it was to complete a long, difficult road march, a specific tactical scenario that needed to be mastered in total darkness, or whether it was securing an objective on the battlefield in Iraq.  No matter the ups and downs in that pursuit, there was a clear calling to just keep moving forward no matter what came our way.

Applying the principle to keep moving forward to our general journey of life would remind us that we know what the objectives are in serving our families and serving an organization.  We know there will be unavoidable difficulties and painful experiences that we will encounter.  There will definitely be things we said or did that we genuinely wish we could take back and ‘do over.’  However, there are no ‘do overs’ in the life we are living.  We just need to keep moving forward in the direction of our objective.

It is important that we accept the reality that ‘do overs’ don’t happen in this life.  Many times the damage is done and perhaps only time can bring about some healing.  We cannot ‘re-raise’ our children, ‘re-live’ some difficult moments in relationships, or ‘re-live’ that career choice of 10 years ago.  First impressions cannot be remade.  Mean spirited comments cannot be restated.  Scars, many times, cannot be completely removed.

Life can only be lived in the present moment.  What we have today is a great opportunity to keep moving forward regardless of the pain from the past.  We will build and strengthen our character as we continue to move forward towards our objective and our Character Creates Opportunity® to build healthy relationships and provides us with the best chance to accomplish our hopes and dreams.

6 thoughts on “Character Creates Opportunity® – Moving Forward: Thursday, June 12, 2014

  1. David,

    Spot on! This is a primary principle of life for me. Sometimes, when times are toughest, you just need to lower your head and push on. Almost invariably, brighter times are ahead if you can just maintain and forge ahead. In the end, the true measure of a person is not so much the heights they achieve, but rather how they respond to the depths of adversity.

    As always, great posting David!

    Buzz

  2. Truly insightful post! I learned this lesson ten years ago when faced with a cancer diagnosis and poor prognosis. I moved forward taking each day one at a time and this watched God use this to redirect my path. It has not been an easy journey but one I am grateful for every day!

  3. Your posting came at a great time David! Currently going through those difficult moments in relationships as well as career. Live in the present and when the going gets tough, the tough get going.

    Thanks again for your insightful blogs!

    Mary

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