“Did you close the sale?” “Did you pass the test?” “Did you win the game?” “Did you complete the project?” “Did you make any money on this idea?”
These are all practical and meaningful questions commonly asked in the home, business, and community.
When our children were younger we would at some point over dinner or before bedtime ask them, “What did you learn today?” When they were young, the answers were filled with new observations of the world, facts from school, and insights from friends. For some reason, asking that to our now teenagers and college students gets a glare like we have two heads or something.
However, one of the more thoughtful, caring, and effective questions we can ask ourselves and others is, “What did you learn?”
As we look to continue to build and strengthen our character, reinforcing the importance of individual and shared learning will enable all of us to continue along a path to reach our full potential.
There is no doubt that the task needs to be completed, money needs to be made, the student needs to pass the test, and winning leads to championships.
By reprioritizing our discussion to first ask about learning and second ask about the specific result, we accomplish several critical elements to ensure we remain on a productive path to reach our full potential. Emphasizing learning before accomplishment helps to:
- Reinforce personal growth and continual, personal growth is the foundation for building a brighter future for us as individuals and for our family, business, and community.
- Lessen the risk of getting arrogant with great accomplishments while bolstering our ability to remain humble…we always have more to learn, no matter how accomplished we have become.
- Demonstrate to others we care more about them than the awards on their wall. Ensuring others know that we care far more about them than what they have accomplished, we will keep the door open to genuine, healthy, and meaningful relationships.
- Encourage others to pursue their dreams rather than live in a box defined by the expectations of others. Moving out from under the expectations of others will enable all of us to take greater responsibility for our choices, more fully realize our strengths and weaknesses, develop clarity around our true purpose, and live a life with fewer regrets in the end.
As we continue to place an emphasis on learning, we will build and strengthen our character and our Character Creates Opportunity® to continue to grow and reach our full potential and be an encouraging voice to those around us.